Last night I had a chat with a friend. We met for formal meeting and now we are lecturing at the same University. We were discussing about our daily life, Catholicism, our plan to do PhD, plan to have children and marriage – and yes, we were discussing over a cup of tea. What caught me at first was the sign hung on the wall. The photo above was one sign hung across my seat. And since we were talking about marriage – I thought that sign would be perfect.
Both of us are dealing with the same issue of planning our future ahead. We have big passion to pursue our PhD – but then we need to think of our husbands and future offspring. For me, doing PhD will be a dream comes true, since I have been wanting to do it for so long. My love for learning has brought me to many places and meet a lot of people. But I also love my husband – as well as my friend does.
We will pray over those important decisions and will check on each other. I am grateful for a friend that God sends for me.
Have a good day!